You Me Her

The BEST episodes of You Me Her

Every episode of You Me Her ever, ranked from best to worst by thousands of votes from fans of the show. The best episodes of You Me Her!

An unusual, real-world romance involving relatable people, with one catch—there are three of them! You Me Her infuses the sensibilities of a smart, grounded indie rom-com with a distinctive twist: one of the two parties just happens to be a suburban married couple.

Last Updated: 9/12/2022Network: Crave
Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word
249 votes

#1 - Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word

Season 1 - Episode 10 - Aired 5/24/2016

Coming together turned their lives upside down, but as much as Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to hide it, splitting up may be doing the real damage. Are all three brave enough to throw caution to the wind and pull off a dramatic last second save?

Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?
192 votes

#2 - Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?

Season 2 - Episode 10 - Aired 4/18/2017

Jack wants a baby, Izzy wants a baby, everybody wants a baby... right? With the dazzling offer from Pinnacle pressing ever harder and an IVF consultation set, Emma must choose between a larger professional canvas and two true loves.

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The T Word
241 votes

#3 - The T Word

Season 1 - Episode 6 - Aired 4/26/2016

Izzy, Emma, and Jack finally take the polyamorous plunge together but things go wildly awry:Everything that could go wrong meets up to conspire against them... in their front yard. However,the real peril may be right there in the room with them.

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The Relationship More Populated
251 votes

#4 - The Relationship More Populated

Season 1 - Episode 8 - Aired 5/10/2016

With blackmail and hurt feelings accumulating all around them, Emma and Jack decide the only way to move forward with Izzy is to reinstate the business arrangement parameters. But Izzy has a plan of her own that's WAY more fun... until it isn't.

You Be You And I'll Be Me
126 votes

#5 - You Be You And I'll Be Me

Season 3 - Episode 10 - Aired 5/22/2018

The complex realities of polyamory and "throupling": What happens when this peculiar rom-com fades to black? Can they prove their best, truest, happiest lives really are together, even when it's difficult and more conventional alternatives beckon?

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Remember, Ruby, Remember
225 votes

#6 - Remember, Ruby, Remember

Season 2 - Episode 3 - Aired 2/28/2017

Jack confronts Emma about inviting Izzy to move in without discussing it with him first. Leaving her to wallow in that epiphany, he goes on his interview at Griffin College and finds himself on "the road not taken."

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Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames
241 votes

#7 - Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames

Season 2 - Episode 1 - Aired 2/14/2017

In the Season 2 premiere, the now official "throuple" commit to cohabitation, face the disapproval of friends and family, and stand their ground in a bold, painful and permanent way.

Silver Linings and Vodka
198 votes

#8 - Silver Linings and Vodka

Season 2 - Episode 9 - Aired 4/11/2017

Izzy and Emma are stunned by Jack's proposal: What if the three of them really did have a baby together? But before they have time to delve deeper, they'll have to talk their way out of a tight spot with Emma's parents.

Freaky Little Love Poodles
194 votes

#9 - Freaky Little Love Poodles

Season 2 - Episode 8 - Aired 4/4/2017

Jack and Emma convince her parents that Izzy's their surrogate, but then the throuple's rouse unearths very real questions about babies and the long-term future of their relationship. Nina seeks out Andy's exes to set the record straight.

Like Riding a Vagina Bike
236 votes

#10 - Like Riding a Vagina Bike

Season 2 - Episode 2 - Aired 2/21/2017

The throuple "come out" at a neighborhood party, spinning the gathering out of control and cracking open a fresh can of troubles. Carmen and Dave try to make amends for their previous prudishness by inviting Jack, Emma and Izzy on an unusual double date.

Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel
213 votes

#11 - Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel

Season 2 - Episode 7 - Aired 3/28/2017

With the happy throuple reunited, how can they explain Izzy's presence to Emma's old school parents? Nina gets disturbing news about Andy's romantic past. And the Amaris quest for cool leads them into a bizarre social situation.

Cat in the Box
217 votes

#12 - Cat in the Box

Season 2 - Episode 4 - Aired 3/7/2017

It's "Dudes and Chicks Night in Hawthorne Heights. While the women introduce Molly to their wine hang, bar-hoppers Dave, Gabe and Jack run into Jack's "one who got away."

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Niece Jackie
254 votes

#13 - Niece Jackie

Season 1 - Episode 5 - Aired 4/19/2016

Izzy, Emma and Jack cope with the real world consequences of their burgeoning alt relationship.As the trio reunite to bolster their collective nerve and take a huge leap, Andy begins to put the pieces together about what Izzy's really been up to.

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What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?
208 votes

#14 - What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?

Season 2 - Episode 6 - Aired 3/21/2017

Good news, Izzy's not pregnant, so why's she housecleaning away her feelings again? Jack inches closer to the point of no return with Ruby. All the while, the clock's ticking on the daunting arrival of Emma's hyper-conservative parents.

Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole
118 votes

#15 - Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole

Season 4 - Episode 1 - Aired 4/9/2019

Two months later, we find EJI back in Hawthorne Heights, "test-renting the Helen Wilberg house. Will the surprising news revealed at Emma's baby-doc appointment put enough pressure on Izzy to finally cave and put down roots in the 'burbs?

Directors: Jem Garrard
The Morning After
229 votes

#16 - The Morning After

Season 1 - Episode 7 - Aired 5/3/2016

The awkward morning after dredges up old fears for Jack and Emma and wounded feelings for Izzy. With their three-way fling feeling like more trouble than it's worth, Jack and Emma wish they'd shut it down before the whole blackmail thing started...

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Sweet Home Colorado
226 votes

#17 - Sweet Home Colorado

Season 1 - Episode 9 - Aired 5/17/2016

After their wild home date turns into a tearful breakup, Izzy decides she needs to move back home to Colorado to deal with her issues. Unaware, Jack and Emma continue to deal with the fallout of what's beginning to feel like a blur of bad choices.

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Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love
210 votes

#18 - Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love

Season 2 - Episode 5 - Aired 3/14/2017

Jack's still caved out at big bro's house, Izzy's trying to coax the married couple back together, and after things go bad at work, Emma's not at all sure about what she really-really wants.

Check a Box
268 votes

#19 - Check a Box

Season 1 - Episode 4 - Aired 4/12/2016

Jack and Emma start to wonder if they're on the same page. Izzy tries to find stability in Andy.After a startling development, Jack and Emma separately try to end things with Izzy, leading to a surprising epiphany.

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Cigarettes and Funions and Crap
463 votes

#20 - Cigarettes and Funions and Crap

Season 1 - Episode 1 - Aired 3/22/2016

Suburban Portland couple Emma and Jack Trakarsky are totally in love but seriously lacking spice. They end up tangled up with an escort (grad student Izzy) to get the mojo back, setting into motion a life-changing series of events for the trio.

Directors: Nisha Ganatra
Can You be Cool?
330 votes

#21 - Can You be Cool?

Season 1 - Episode 2 - Aired 3/29/2016

As Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to put the mother of all weird days behind them, Emma reveals a secret, Izzy finds committing to safe-bet Andy tougher than she thought, and Jack can't shake the feeling that he's gotten them all in over their heads.

Directors: Nisha Ganatra
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Welcome to the Tiger Cage
110 votes

#22 - Welcome to the Tiger Cage

Season 3 - Episode 5 - Aired 4/17/2018

Izzy grows ever more suspicious of Emma's return to Portland and Jack's increasingly odd behavior. Just as they're edging their way into a surprising new relationship, Nina lashes out at Shaun. Emma makes the biggest decision of her life.

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No Penetration
292 votes

#23 - No Penetration

Season 1 - Episode 3 - Aired 4/5/2016

Jack, Izzy, and Emma, all together for the first time, agree to keep their relationship a business arrangement. Emma has her first date with Izzy while Jack grows ever more jealous and concerned about how this might effect his possible promotion.

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Hold Onto Your Ovaries
121 votes

#24 - Hold Onto Your Ovaries

Season 3 - Episode 7 - Aired 5/1/2018

At Carmen and Hannah's magazine launch party, Emma corners Izzy in a Hail Mary attempt to get her back. Nina gets stood up so Shaun offers to be her replacement "thesis date". Good news for Carmen's magazine means bad news for Dave.

Home Is Where the Flaming Heart Is
68 votes

#25 - Home Is Where the Flaming Heart Is

Season 5 - Episode 10 - Aired 6/8/2020

The Curious Case of EJI is resolved: Izzy’s leaving and Emma and Jack are staying because it’s the right thing to do. The end. Except...

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