The BEST Episodes of You Me Her

Every episode ever - ranked by fan votes!

Last Updated: Sep 11, 2019

An unusual, real-world romance involving relatable people, with one catch—there are three of them! You Me Her infuses the sensibilities of a smart, grounded indie rom-com with a distinctive twist: one of the two parties just happens to be a suburban married couple.

You Be You And I'll Be Me

#1 - You Be You And I'll Be Me

Season 3 - Episode 10

The complex realities of polyamory and "throupling": What happens when this peculiar rom-com fades to black? Can they prove their best, truest, happiest lives really are together, even when it's difficult and more conventional alternatives beckon?

star 7.98
107 votes
Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?

#2 - Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?

Season 2 - Episode 10

Jack wants a baby, Izzy wants a baby, everybody wants a baby... right? With the dazzling offer from Pinnacle pressing ever harder and an IVF consultation set, Emma must choose between a larger professional canvas and two true loves.

star 7.95
146 votes
The T Word

#3 - The T Word

Season 1 - Episode 6

Izzy, Emma, and Jack finally take the polyamorous plunge together but things go wildly awry:Everything that could go wrong meets up to conspire against them... in their front yard. However,the real peril may be right there in the room with them.

star 7.91
187 votes
Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word

#4 - Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word

Season 1 - Episode 10

Coming together turned their lives upside down, but as much as Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to hide it, splitting up may be doing the real damage. Are all three brave enough to throw caution to the wind and pull off a dramatic last second save?

star 7.90
172 votes
Remember, Ruby, Remember

#5 - Remember, Ruby, Remember

Season 2 - Episode 3

Jack confronts Emma about inviting Izzy to move in without discussing it with him first. Leaving her to wallow in that epiphany, he goes on his interview at Griffin College and finds himself on "the road not taken."

star 7.89
176 votes
Silver Linings and Vodka

#6 - Silver Linings and Vodka

Season 2 - Episode 9

Izzy and Emma are stunned by Jack's proposal: What if the three of them really did have a baby together? But before they have time to delve deeper, they'll have to talk their way out of a tight spot with Emma's parents.

star 7.87
148 votes
Freaky Little Love Poodles

#7 - Freaky Little Love Poodles

Season 2 - Episode 8

Jack and Emma convince her parents that Izzy's their surrogate, but then the throuple's rouse unearths very real questions about babies and the long-term future of their relationship. Nina seeks out Andy's exes to set the record straight.

star 7.81
150 votes
Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames

#8 - Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames

Season 2 - Episode 1

In the Season 2 premiere, the now official "throuple" commit to cohabitation, face the disapproval of friends and family, and stand their ground in a bold, painful and permanent way.

star 7.76
190 votes
The Relationship More Populated

#9 - The Relationship More Populated

Season 1 - Episode 8

With blackmail and hurt feelings accumulating all around them, Emma and Jack decide the only way to move forward with Izzy is to reinstate the business arrangement parameters. But Izzy has a plan of her own that's WAY more fun... until it isn't.

star 7.75
171 votes
Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel

#10 - Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel

Season 2 - Episode 7

With the happy throuple reunited, how can they explain Izzy's presence to Emma's old school parents? Nina gets disturbing news about Andy's romantic past. And the Amaris quest for cool leads them into a bizarre social situation.

star 7.74
164 votes
Like Riding a Vagina Bike

#11 - Like Riding a Vagina Bike

Season 2 - Episode 2

The throuple "come out" at a neighborhood party, spinning the gathering out of control and cracking open a fresh can of troubles. Carmen and Dave try to make amends for their previous prudishness by inviting Jack, Emma and Izzy on an unusual double date.

star 7.68
185 votes
Cat in the Box

#12 - Cat in the Box

Season 2 - Episode 4

It's "Dudes and Chicks Night in Hawthorne Heights. While the women introduce Molly to their wine hang, bar-hoppers Dave, Gabe and Jack run into Jack's "one who got away."

star 7.67
173 votes
Niece Jackie

#13 - Niece Jackie

Season 1 - Episode 5

Izzy, Emma and Jack cope with the real world consequences of their burgeoning alt relationship.As the trio reunite to bolster their collective nerve and take a huge leap, Andy begins to put the pieces together about what Izzy's really been up to.

star 7.64
199 votes
What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?

#14 - What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?

Season 2 - Episode 6

Good news, Izzy's not pregnant, so why's she housecleaning away her feelings again? Jack inches closer to the point of no return with Ruby. All the while, the clock's ticking on the daunting arrival of Emma's hyper-conservative parents.

star 7.63
161 votes
Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!

#15 - Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!

Season 4 - Episode 5

EJI attend Poly Training Camp with Portland's resident poly expert, Coach Remi. They expected the unexpected... but not that they'd be "outed" for doing poly all wrong.

star 7.63
67 votes
Directors: Jem Garrard
Writers: Alex Koplow, John Scott Shepherd
Hold Onto Your Ovaries

#16 - Hold Onto Your Ovaries

Season 3 - Episode 7

At Carmen and Hannah's magazine launch party, Emma corners Izzy in a Hail Mary attempt to get her back. Nina gets stood up so Shaun offers to be her replacement "thesis date". Good news for Carmen's magazine means bad news for Dave.

star 7.62
104 votes
Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole

#17 - Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole

Season 4 - Episode 1

Two months later, we find EJI back in Hawthorne Heights, "test-renting the Helen Wilberg house. Will the surprising news revealed at Emma's baby-doc appointment put enough pressure on Izzy to finally cave and put down roots in the 'burbs?

star 7.58
89 votes
Directors: Jem Garrard
Writers: John Scott Shepherd
Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love

#18 - Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love

Season 2 - Episode 5

Jack's still caved out at big bro's house, Izzy's trying to coax the married couple back together, and after things go bad at work, Emma's not at all sure about what she really-really wants.

star 7.57
164 votes
Welcome to the Tiger Cage

#19 - Welcome to the Tiger Cage

Season 3 - Episode 5

Izzy grows ever more suspicious of Emma's return to Portland and Jack's increasingly odd behavior. Just as they're edging their way into a surprising new relationship, Nina lashes out at Shaun. Emma makes the biggest decision of her life.

star 7.57
92 votes
No Penetration

#20 - No Penetration

Season 1 - Episode 3

Jack, Izzy, and Emma, all together for the first time, agree to keep their relationship a business arrangement. Emma has her first date with Izzy while Jack grows ever more jealous and concerned about how this might effect his possible promotion.

star 7.56
233 votes
The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin Spice

#21 - The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin Spice

Season 3 - Episode 8

Nina's emerging feelings for Shaun are complicated when Andy pops back up with one hell of a story. Ben plants seeds of doubt about how Izzy could fit into the Trakarskys' new life.

star 7.56
108 votes
Can You be Cool?

#22 - Can You be Cool?

Season 1 - Episode 2

As Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to put the mother of all weird days behind them, Emma reveals a secret, Izzy finds committing to safe-bet Andy tougher than she thought, and Jack can't shake the feeling that he's gotten them all in over their heads.

star 7.55
266 votes
Directors: Nisha Ganatra
Check a Box

#23 - Check a Box

Season 1 - Episode 4

Jack and Emma start to wonder if they're on the same page. Izzy tries to find stability in Andy.After a startling development, Jack and Emma separately try to end things with Izzy, leading to a surprising epiphany.

star 7.54
211 votes
Fool Me Once? Shame on You. Fool Me Twice? Blow Me

#24 - Fool Me Once? Shame on You. Fool Me Twice? Blow Me

Season 3 - Episode 6

Jack and Ben finally meet but Jack's got a more pressing issue on his mind. Emma tries to apologize to Izzy but it falls on deaf ears. Carmen and Hannah plan a magazine launch party. Izzy tries to reconnect Sasha with her grandmother.

star 7.52
98 votes
The Saddest Clown Show Ever

#25 - The Saddest Clown Show Ever

Season 4 - Episode 2

Jack tries to bro-out with his new replacement friend, Nathan. Izzy decides to apply for the Hawthorne School counsellor job. Emma tries to start her architectural empire from home, but can't keep from spying on the exciting new neighbors.

star 7.51
73 votes
Directors: Jem Garrard
Writers: Michael Reisz