The BEST Episodes of You Me Her
Every episode ever - ranked by fan votes!
Last Updated: Aug 9, 2019
An unusual, real-world romance involving relatable people, with one catch—there are three of them! You Me Her infuses the sensibilities of a smart, grounded indie rom-com with a distinctive twist: one of the two parties just happens to be a suburban married couple.
#1 - You Be You And I'll Be Me
Season 3 - Episode 10
The complex realities of polyamory and "throupling": What happens when this peculiar rom-com fades to black? Can they prove their best, truest, happiest lives really are together, even when it's difficult and more conventional alternatives beckon?
#2 - Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?
Season 2 - Episode 10
Jack wants a baby, Izzy wants a baby, everybody wants a baby... right? With the dazzling offer from Pinnacle pressing ever harder and an IVF consultation set, Emma must choose between a larger professional canvas and two true loves.
#3 - The T Word
Season 1 - Episode 6
Izzy, Emma, and Jack finally take the polyamorous plunge together but things go wildly awry:Everything that could go wrong meets up to conspire against them... in their front yard. However,the real peril may be right there in the room with them.
#4 - Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word
Season 1 - Episode 10
Coming together turned their lives upside down, but as much as Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to hide it, splitting up may be doing the real damage. Are all three brave enough to throw caution to the wind and pull off a dramatic last second save?
#5 - Remember, Ruby, Remember
Season 2 - Episode 3
Jack confronts Emma about inviting Izzy to move in without discussing it with him first. Leaving her to wallow in that epiphany, he goes on his interview at Griffin College and finds himself on "the road not taken."
#6 - Silver Linings and Vodka
Season 2 - Episode 9
Izzy and Emma are stunned by Jack's proposal: What if the three of them really did have a baby together? But before they have time to delve deeper, they'll have to talk their way out of a tight spot with Emma's parents.
#7 - Freaky Little Love Poodles
Season 2 - Episode 8
Jack and Emma convince her parents that Izzy's their surrogate, but then the throuple's rouse unearths very real questions about babies and the long-term future of their relationship. Nina seeks out Andy's exes to set the record straight.
#8 - Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames
Season 2 - Episode 1
In the Season 2 premiere, the now official "throuple" commit to cohabitation, face the disapproval of friends and family, and stand their ground in a bold, painful and permanent way.
#9 - The Relationship More Populated
Season 1 - Episode 8
With blackmail and hurt feelings accumulating all around them, Emma and Jack decide the only way to move forward with Izzy is to reinstate the business arrangement parameters. But Izzy has a plan of her own that's WAY more fun... until it isn't.
#10 - Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel
Season 2 - Episode 7
With the happy throuple reunited, how can they explain Izzy's presence to Emma's old school parents? Nina gets disturbing news about Andy's romantic past. And the Amaris quest for cool leads them into a bizarre social situation.
#11 - Like Riding a Vagina Bike
Season 2 - Episode 2
The throuple "come out" at a neighborhood party, spinning the gathering out of control and cracking open a fresh can of troubles. Carmen and Dave try to make amends for their previous prudishness by inviting Jack, Emma and Izzy on an unusual double date.
#12 - Cat in the Box
Season 2 - Episode 4
It's "Dudes and Chicks Night in Hawthorne Heights. While the women introduce Molly to their wine hang, bar-hoppers Dave, Gabe and Jack run into Jack's "one who got away."
#13 - Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!
Season 4 - Episode 5
EJI attend Poly Training Camp with Portland's resident poly expert, Coach Remi. They expected the unexpected... but not that they'd be "outed" for doing poly all wrong.
#14 - Niece Jackie
Season 1 - Episode 5
Izzy, Emma and Jack cope with the real world consequences of their burgeoning alt relationship.As the trio reunite to bolster their collective nerve and take a huge leap, Andy begins to put the pieces together about what Izzy's really been up to.
#15 - What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?
Season 2 - Episode 6
Good news, Izzy's not pregnant, so why's she housecleaning away her feelings again? Jack inches closer to the point of no return with Ruby. All the while, the clock's ticking on the daunting arrival of Emma's hyper-conservative parents.
#16 - Hold Onto Your Ovaries
Season 3 - Episode 7
At Carmen and Hannah's magazine launch party, Emma corners Izzy in a Hail Mary attempt to get her back. Nina gets stood up so Shaun offers to be her replacement "thesis date". Good news for Carmen's magazine means bad news for Dave.
#17 - Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole
Season 4 - Episode 1
Two months later, we find EJI back in Hawthorne Heights, "test-renting the Helen Wilberg house. Will the surprising news revealed at Emma's baby-doc appointment put enough pressure on Izzy to finally cave and put down roots in the 'burbs?
#18 - Welcome to the Tiger Cage
Season 3 - Episode 5
Izzy grows ever more suspicious of Emma's return to Portland and Jack's increasingly odd behavior. Just as they're edging their way into a surprising new relationship, Nina lashes out at Shaun. Emma makes the biggest decision of her life.
#19 - Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love
Season 2 - Episode 5
Jack's still caved out at big bro's house, Izzy's trying to coax the married couple back together, and after things go bad at work, Emma's not at all sure about what she really-really wants.
#20 - The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin Spice
Season 3 - Episode 8
Nina's emerging feelings for Shaun are complicated when Andy pops back up with one hell of a story. Ben plants seeds of doubt about how Izzy could fit into the Trakarskys' new life.
#21 - I'm Popeye and You're My Beautiful Spinach
Season 4 - Episode 9
Izzy tries to friend zone Nathan once and for all. Jack and his mom finally have their showdown.
#22 - No Penetration
Season 1 - Episode 3
Jack, Izzy, and Emma, all together for the first time, agree to keep their relationship a business arrangement. Emma has her first date with Izzy while Jack grows ever more jealous and concerned about how this might effect his possible promotion.
#23 - The Saddest Clown Show Ever
Season 4 - Episode 2
Jack tries to bro-out with his new replacement friend, Nathan. Izzy decides to apply for the Hawthorne School counsellor job. Emma tries to start her architectural empire from home, but can't keep from spying on the exciting new neighbors.
#24 - Can You be Cool?
Season 1 - Episode 2
As Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to put the mother of all weird days behind them, Emma reveals a secret, Izzy finds committing to safe-bet Andy tougher than she thought, and Jack can't shake the feeling that he's gotten them all in over their heads.
#25 - Check a Box
Season 1 - Episode 4
Jack and Emma start to wonder if they're on the same page. Izzy tries to find stability in Andy.After a startling development, Jack and Emma separately try to end things with Izzy, leading to a surprising epiphany.