The BEST episodes of Thirtysomething

Every episode of Thirtysomething ever, ranked from best to worst by thousands of votes from fans of the show. The best episodes of Thirtysomething!

When thirtysomething debuted in 1987 it was attacked by some critics as being a self-indulgent examination of the minutiae of yuppie life. Before the first season was over, some of those same critics were covering their tracks by calling it "the most improved show on television." Producers Ed Zwick and Marshall Herskovitz had teamed up before on Family and would go on to create My So-Called Life, Relativity and Once and Again. Often using feature-film techniques, their brand of what could be called "reality" television tackled not only the small subjects, but the big ones too, all the way from life to death, as they followed their characters on the road from the idealism of youth to the search for security and responsibility as they glided toward middle age.

Last Updated: 4/19/2024Network: ABC (US)Status: Ended
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Towers of Zenith Part 1: The Go-Between
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#1 - Towers of Zenith Part 1: The Go-Between

Season 3 - Episode 23 - Aired 5/15/1990

CAPSULE: As Elliot grows more dissatisfied with DAA, Michael finds out something that could change everything about the company. Miles plans to take Michael to New York with him to meet with Bob Spano, head of Minnesota Brands, their largest client. In a meeting, Miles informs Elliot and Michael that a spokesman for another big account has been lost to another agency and he puts the blame squarely on Eliot. Later Michael ask Miles why he was so tough on Elliot. Miles picks up the phone and calls Elliot, giving him a perfunctory apology. In New York, Miles and Michael dine with Spano and Gus Hennesey from Minnesota Brands. The down-to-earth Spano finds Miles a little weird, but seems to like Michael. Later Gus calls Michael and sets up a private meeting. He tells Mike that Minnesota Brands is looking to expand into media. Elliot tells Nancy that his job has become a burden and that he's thinking of quitting after her ""second look"" surgery. Miles tells Michael that he thinks Elliot is di

Directors: Scott Winant
Closing the Circle
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1 votes

#2 - Closing the Circle

Season 4 - Episode 18 - Aired 4/16/1991

Michael tries to come to terms with Gary's passing. Among the living, he has problems with Susannah and with Miles and Peter at work.

Directors: Richard Kramer
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Out the Door
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1 votes

#3 - Out the Door

Season 4 - Episode 19 - Aired 4/30/1991

Michael's fortunes seem to be rising at DAA, but Elliot is more dissatisfied than ever and is ready to quit the job, leading to conflict between the two.

Directors: Mel Harris
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A Stop at Willoughby
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1 votes

#4 - A Stop at Willoughby

Season 4 - Episode 21 - Aired 5/14/1991

The stress of working at DAA becomes too much for Michael.

Directors: Timothy Busfield
Whose Forest Is This?
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1 votes

#5 - Whose Forest Is This?

Season 1 - Episode 17 - Aired 3/15/1988

Nancy and Elliot's separation takes its toll on their son; Elliot prepares for a blind date with a chiropractor.

I'll Be Home for Christmas
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9.67
3 votes

#6 - I'll Be Home for Christmas

Season 1 - Episode 9 - Aired 12/15/1987

Michael and Hope argue about whether their infant's first holiday should be Christmas or Hanukkah. A famous photographer shows interest in Melissa's work.

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California
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9.33
3 votes

#7 - California

Season 4 - Episode 23 - Aired 5/28/1991

Michael gets a job offer in California. While out there, he runs into Elliot and they talk about forming another partnership. But Hope is adamantly against the move, so much so that her and Michael's marriage is threatened.

Directors: Scott Winant
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Pilot
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8.91
43 votes

#8 - Pilot

Season 1 - Episode 1 - Aired 9/29/1987

Hope and Michael Steadman are still adjusting to parenthood while struggling with money problems and best-friend crises. After some intercut scenes of a courtship, wedding and pregnancy, we see married couple Michael and Hope Steadman at breakfast with their 7-month-old daughter Janey and their dog Grendel. At work, Michael tells off an important client over the phone, to the dismay of his good friend and business partner Elliot Weston. Both men realize that their fledgling advertising agency could be in danger of folding. Hope goes to meet her old friend Ellyn at a restaurant, but the occasion is ruined when Janey won't stop crying. Michael comes home to find Gary, his old friend from college, there with Hope. Arriving on the scene next is Michael's cousin Melissa, who is distraught because of a philandering boyfriend. From the conversation, it's revealed that Gary and Melissa have had a past romantic relationship.

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First Day / Last Day
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8.50
2 votes

#9 - First Day / Last Day

Season 2 - Episode 8 - Aired 2/7/1989

Flashback scenes of Michael and Elliot meeting, working together, and forming their own company are interspersed with the present-day dissolution of the Michael and Elliot Company. The two have serious disagreements which threaten their friendship.

Directors: Peter Horton
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Success
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8.50
2 votes

#10 - Success

Season 2 - Episode 7 - Aired 1/31/1989

Melissa gets a job working with Carly Simon. Michael and Elliot face losing their business. Melissa is excited--Russell has shown some of her work around and he might be able to get her the job of shooting Carly Simon's next album cover! When he calls to confirm the good news, Ellyn is with her. Russell also tells her they're going to be a party for Carly and she can invite all the friends she wants. Melissa hides that last bit of information from Ellyn. Meanwhile Michael and Elliot are worried about their biggest account, Motherland Dairies, which has been sold and may drop them. The Michael & Elliot company plays Miles Drentell's DAA ad agency in basketball and loses. Mike relives the game in his imagination, making the winning layup. Later Michael and Elliot meet with the new owners of Motherland, who let them go. Mike is sure this is the end of their company, but Elliot still thinks there is hope. Russell and Melissa are at the Steadman's house.

Directors: Ron Lagomarsino
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Accounts Receivable
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8.50
2 votes

#11 - Accounts Receivable

Season 1 - Episode 16 - Aired 3/1/1988

A rocky relationship between Michael and his brother Brad is further strained when Michael learns the family business is almost bankrupt.

Directors: Edward Zwick
Therapy
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8.50
4 votes

#12 - Therapy

Season 1 - Episode 11 - Aired 1/12/1988

Elliot and Nancy seek professional help for their troubled marriage; Michael finds it hard to keep it a secret.

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But Not for Me
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8.43
7 votes

#13 - But Not for Me

Season 1 - Episode 5 - Aired 11/3/1987

Gary and Melissa rekindle their affair; Michael and Hope's first date in months is a disaster.

Directors: Tom Moore
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We Gather Together
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8.20
5 votes

#14 - We Gather Together

Season 1 - Episode 6 - Aired 11/17/1987

Hope and Michael plan a quiet Thanksgiving but learn friends are counting on being invited.

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Separation
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8.20
5 votes

#15 - Separation

Season 1 - Episode 13 - Aired 1/26/1988

Elliot temporarily moves in with Michael and Hope after separating from Nancy.

Directors: Peter Horton
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Housewarming
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8.13
8 votes

#16 - Housewarming

Season 1 - Episode 3 - Aired 10/13/1987

Michael and Hope race to renovate their crumbling mansion for a huge housewarming party.

Directors: John Pasquin
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The Parents Are Coming, the Parents Are Coming
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8.09
11 votes

#17 - The Parents Are Coming, the Parents Are Coming

Season 1 - Episode 2 - Aired 10/6/1987

Hope's anxiety over her parents' impending visit taxes everyone's patience. Hope gets devastating news: Her parents are coming to visit in two days! The Steadmans hope Gary can fix their out-of-order bathroom in that time. Hope grows more and more frantic as the arrival approaches, and the news that Gary won't have the bathroom fixed only adds to her anxiety. Michael and Hope go to pick up Ruth and Ted Murdoch at the airport. On the way home, a palpable tension already is noticeable between Hope and her mother. Despite the parents' protests, Hope and Michael insist they take their master bedroom with its own bath. At night, Michael needs his razor but is afraid to enter in on Ruth and Ted. When they do let him in, Michael perhaps is thinking he's taking a look at Hope and himself thirty years down the line. Hope goes shopping with her mother and buys a dress she really doesn't like, but was afraid to disagree about with her mother.

Directors: Edward Zwick
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Towers of Zenith Part 2: Samurai Adman
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8.00
2 votes

#18 - Towers of Zenith Part 2: Samurai Adman

Season 3 - Episode 24 - Aired 5/22/1990

CAPSULE: Michael's career is on the line as the hostile takeover attempt of DAA heats up. As Minnesota Brands plots its hostile takeover of DAA, Miles wants to take Michael with him to see Carol Arthur, the widow of former company partner Duncan Arthur who owns 27 1/2% of the stock. But Carol comes by the company, rather than have Miles set foot in her house. Michael decides to bring Mark in on the takeover secret. They realize that their failure in this matter could cost them both their careers. Hope worries that Michael may be crossing some ethical lines and turning into Miles. Michael is in Miles' office doing a bit of snooping when Miles and his secretary come in. He makes an excuse and then listens in as Miles places a phone call to Gabe Rivera, setting up an emergency appointment. Michael sends Elliot to spy on the Drentell/Rivera meeting. While on this mission, Elliot runs into Mark, who is doing the same thing. They find out Rivera's identity--he's Miles' dentist! Meanwhile Min

Directors: Joseph Dougherty
Life Class
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8.00
1 votes

#19 - Life Class

Season 4 - Episode 2 - Aired 10/2/1990

CAPSULE: Nancy feels that the hysterectomy has adversely affected her sex drive. Shots of Nancy teaching a class at the art center are intercut with her being examined by Dr. Eilertson. She asks about diminished sex drive after a hysterectomy and he tells her it should be no problem. Later at a gallery she sees a younger male student who she'd noticed before in class (and who seemed to notice her.) At DAA, Miles chews out Angel and Hollis, upsetting them. Angel comes to Elliot's office to hide out. Elliot arrives home to find Nancy tired and testy. The always-perceptive Ethan notices the changes in his mother, too. Nancy sees the student again and has a fantasy about him. But back at home with Elliot, she tells him she has no desire to make love. At DAA, Angel begins to work on an important account with Elliot, and they both are enjoying it. Later Elliot stops by Nancy's class and she argues with him, accusing him of gawking at the nude young female model. Nancy talks with Dr. Silverma

Directors: Scott Winant
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Once a Mermaid
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1 votes

#20 - Once a Mermaid

Season 3 - Episode 14 - Aired 2/6/1990

CAPSULE: Ellyn restarts her affair with Richard, this time in earnest. Ellyn seems to be putting her flirtation with Jeffrey behind her, as she talks with Melissa about men and has a blind date with Billy Sidel arranged by Hope and Michael. Bur while leaving the gym one day there's a knock on her car window--and it's Jeffrey, who is willing to start the whole affair over again. She leaves him there, but later at home is thinking about him. Jeffrey calls and leaves a message for her to meet him tomorrow at a park. The next day Ellyn is there waiting in a torrential rainstorm, but before Richard arrives who should appear on the scene but Gary. Barely having avoided being seen, Ellyn lets Richard kiss her. At the sauna Ellyn and Melissa talk about the blind date. Ellyn reveals she's about to start up with Richard again, though she knows it could be trouble. Melissa tells her to do what she thinks is good for her. Ellyn and Jeffrey meet for dinner and he tells her some of his marital histo

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New Baby
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#21 - New Baby

Season 3 - Episode 4 - Aired 10/24/1989

CAPSULE: Susannah and Gary become new parents after a difficult delivery. Melissa has a hard time accepting Gary's new status. In a story told in reverse, the opening scene has Susannah in the hospital having a difficult delivery. Gary is there with her. We see earlier scenes of Susannah in pain, getting nauseous and being a little abusive to Gary. Gary calls Melissa but gets her machine. Michael is at the hospital with Gary. The doctor checks the dilating Susannah and sends Gary out. Still going backwards: The labor starts getting difficult. Gary calls and leaves a message for Melissa, apologizing for what happened earlier. Melissa is listening but doesn't pick up. Gary gets ready for the hospital as contractions are starting. Earlier, Melissa is at his outside his house. She's brought a present for them--a car, albeit an old junker. Melissa argues with Gary, saying he hasn't given her a thought lately, and she stalks off angrily. Back to the wedding shower: Susannah is looking a litt

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The Mike Van Dyke Show
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3 votes

#22 - The Mike Van Dyke Show

Season 2 - Episode 3 - Aired 12/20/1988

As Christmas and Hanukkah near, Hope suffers a minor injury and an unknown illness. Michael has a crisis of faith and imagines his life as a 1960's TV sitcom. Michael and Hope are negotiating over Christmas/Hanukkah celebrations. Mike starts watching TV and sees himself in an old black & white TV sitcom, with the Westons interrupting his plans to be with Hope. The next day at work, Elliot tells Mike he seems distracted. Michael gets a phone call--Hope has been in an accident with Janey. Rushing to the hospital, he finds Janey unhurt and Hope looking tired with some contusions on her face, but otherwise apparently OK. Mike watches the TV show again, this time with Santa in it. He drives Melissa to the synagogue and she encourages him to come on Friday. Michael returns home with a tree and finds Hope getting ill in the bathroom. He tells her to go to the doctor about the dizzy spells she's been having. Another flash to the TV show: Hope is missing on a wintry night.

Directors: Ron Lagomarsino
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Born to Be Mild
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8.00
1 votes

#23 - Born to Be Mild

Season 1 - Episode 21 - Aired 5/10/1988

Ellyn and Woodman's weekend is ruined when they are forced to babysit Janey.

Directors: Ron Lagomarsino
Writer: Jerry Stahl
Undone
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1 votes

#24 - Undone

Season 1 - Episode 19 - Aired 4/12/1988

Michael's old girlfriend from college pays a visit.

Directors: Dan Lerner
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I'm in Love, I'm in Love, I'm in Love with a Wonderful Gynecologist
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8.00
1 votes

#25 - I'm in Love, I'm in Love, I'm in Love with a Wonderful Gynecologist

Season 1 - Episode 14 - Aired 2/2/1988

Competing for the attention of the same man jeopardizes the new found friendship between Ellyn and Melissa.