The BEST episodes of Dead to Me

Every episode of Dead to Me ever, ranked from best to worst by thousands of votes from fans of the show. The best episodes of Dead to Me!

Two women meet at a support group after tragic losses and become unlikely friends despite their polar-opposite personalities.

Last Updated: 11/9/2024Network: NetflixStatus: Ended
You Have To Go
star
8.14
821 votes

#1 - You Have To Go

Season 1 - Episode 10 - Aired 5/3/2019

Armed with the truth about her husband's death, Jen demands justice. Meanwhile, Judy's attempt to make amends causes all sorts of problems for Steve.

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Where Do We Go From Here
star
8.08
555 votes

#2 - Where Do We Go From Here

Season 2 - Episode 10 - Aired 5/8/2020

Determined to protect her family, Jen tries to come clean about Steve's whereabouts, but the situation veers in an unexpected direction thanks to Judy.

Directors: Silver Tree
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I Have To Be Honest
star
8.00
781 votes

#3 - I Have To Be Honest

Season 1 - Episode 9 - Aired 5/3/2019

As Jen's life begins to crumble personally and professionally, she reveals her darkest secret to Judy, who does some confessing of her own.

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It's Not You, It's Me
star
7.90
546 votes

#4 - It's Not You, It's Me

Season 2 - Episode 9 - Aired 5/8/2020

Filled with guilt and regret, Jen finds a civic-minded way to unleash some pent-up feelings. Judy revisits her past. The police uncover a new lead.

Directors: Silver Tree
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I Can't Go Back
star
7.75
847 votes

#5 - I Can't Go Back

Season 1 - Episode 4 - Aired 5/3/2019

When Jen discovers that her late husband harbored a devastating secret, she enlists Judy's help in tracking down more information.

Directors: Abe Sylvia
Writer: Kate Robin
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You Don't Have To
star
7.69
553 votes

#6 - You Don't Have To

Season 2 - Episode 6 - Aired 5/8/2020

Jen scrambles to contain the fallout from Charlie's vehicular hijinks, Judy faces questions about Steve, and Henry experiences a case of stage fright.

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We're Almost Out of Time
star
7.68
333 votes

#7 - We're Almost Out of Time

Season 3 - Episode 9 - Aired 11/17/2022

Judy may be ready to face the future, but her BFF isn't. Hot on the heels of a tearful admission, Jen scrambles to secure a Hail Mary option.

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Try To Stop Me
star
7.68
775 votes

#8 - Try To Stop Me

Season 1 - Episode 8 - Aired 5/3/2019

Jen makes a reckless decision after Nick narrows down the list of potential suspects, and Judy feels renewed hope over her relationship with Steve.

Directors: Kat Coiro
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It's All My Fault
star
7.68
887 votes

#9 - It's All My Fault

Season 1 - Episode 3 - Aired 5/3/2019

On what would have been her husband's 50th birthday, Jen clashes with her disapproving mother-in-law over the best way to mark the occasion.

Directors: Abe Sylvia
Writer: Anthony King
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We've Reached the End
star
7.67
348 votes

#10 - We've Reached the End

Season 3 - Episode 10 - Aired 11/17/2022

On an escape to Mexico, Jen and Judy face the past and make decisions about the future as they forever cement their ride-or-die friendship.

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It Had To Be You
star
7.66
542 votes

#11 - It Had To Be You

Season 2 - Episode 8 - Aired 5/8/2020

Jen feels conflicted over a real estate deal. The damage from Charlie's joyride piles up. Judy reaches out to Michelle and runs into Detective Perez.

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Oh My God
star
7.65
815 votes

#12 - Oh My God

Season 1 - Episode 6 - Aired 5/3/2019

Jen realizes her sons aren't coping with their dad's death as well as she thought they were. Judy joins Nick as he investigates the hit-and-run.

Directors: Minkie Spiro
Writer: Njeri Brown
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If Only You Knew
star
7.62
550 votes

#13 - If Only You Knew

Season 2 - Episode 7 - Aired 5/8/2020

Judy receives a rude awakening after a romantic night, while Jen looks to make a positive contribution to the community — and a client.

Writer: Dan Dietz
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Can We Be Honest?
star
7.58
330 votes

#14 - Can We Be Honest?

Season 3 - Episode 7 - Aired 11/17/2022

Reeling from the doctor's visit, a poncho-clad Jen wrestles with how to tell Judy. Ben looks to make amends by coming clean, and Nick confronts Perez.

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I Can Handle It
star
7.53
787 votes

#15 - I Can Handle It

Season 1 - Episode 7 - Aired 5/3/2019

A break in the case and a crushing business setback leave Jen shaken. Judy and Steve take care of unfinished business.

Directors: Kat Coiro
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Maybe I'm Crazy
star
7.53
942 votes

#16 - Maybe I'm Crazy

Season 1 - Episode 2 - Aired 5/3/2019

Amid her escalating rage over the stalled investigation into her husband's death, Jen becomes more entangled in Judy's messy personal life.

Directors: Amy York Rubin
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I've Gotta Get Away
star
7.53
809 votes

#17 - I've Gotta Get Away

Season 1 - Episode 5 - Aired 5/3/2019

A grief retreat in Palm Springs gives Jen a chance to move on and cut loose under the watchful eye of Judy, who soon follows her friend's lead.

Directors: Minkie Spiro
Writer: Abe Sylvia
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Between You And Me
star
7.52
565 votes

#18 - Between You And Me

Season 2 - Episode 4 - Aired 5/8/2020

Jen and Judy try to dig their way out of trouble during a trip out of town, but their cathartic weekend away comes to an abrupt end over tragic news.

Directors: Tamra Davis
Writer: Jessi Klein
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Where Have You Been
star
7.49
611 votes

#19 - Where Have You Been

Season 2 - Episode 2 - Aired 5/8/2020

Rattled when an old acquaintance of Judy's turns up asking questions about Steve, Jen prepares for the worst. Detective Perez's suspicions grow.

Directors: Liza Johnson
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You Know What You Did
star
7.47
643 votes

#20 - You Know What You Did

Season 2 - Episode 1 - Aired 5/8/2020

As Jen and Judy grapple with the distressing events of the night before, Jen soon realizes that eyes — and ears — are everywhere in her neighborhood.

Directors: Liza Johnson
Writer: Liz Feldman
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We're Gonna Beat This Thing
star
7.47
333 votes

#21 - We're Gonna Beat This Thing

Season 3 - Episode 6 - Aired 11/17/2022

Jen mobilizes to support Judy, drawing on everything she learned from her mother. Nick's tenacity over a piece of evidence raises concerns for Perez.

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Pilot
star
7.47
1118 votes

#22 - Pilot

Season 1 - Episode 1 - Aired 5/3/2019

Overwhelmed by grief and anger after her husband's sudden death, acerbic real estate agent Jen meets tenderhearted Judy at a support group.

Directors: Amy York Rubin
Writer: Liz Feldman
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We'll Find a Way
star
7.44
321 votes

#23 - We'll Find a Way

Season 3 - Episode 8 - Aired 11/17/2022

Jen juggles selling the house next door with anxiety over the FBI investigation as Judy tries to live in denial for a little while longer.

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We Didn't Think This Through
star
7.44
342 votes

#24 - We Didn't Think This Through

Season 3 - Episode 5 - Aired 11/17/2022

Jen deals with plumbing problems and an impromptu party. Judy keeps a life-changing decision to herself. Ben falls headlong into a grief spiral.

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The Price You Pay
star
7.43
543 votes

#25 - The Price You Pay

Season 2 - Episode 5 - Aired 5/8/2020

A sore back, money worries and a busybody neighbor push Jen to seek relief from the last person she expects. Judy connects with a kindred spirit.

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