The BEST Episodes of Dead to Me

Every episode ever - ranked by fan votes!

Last Updated: Dec 5, 2020

Network: Netflix

Two women meet at a support group after tragic losses and become unlikely friends despite their polar-opposite personalities.

You Have To Go

#1 - You Have To Go

Season 1 - Episode 10 - Aired May 3, 2019

Armed with the truth about her husband's death, Jen demands justice. Meanwhile, Judy's attempt to make amends causes all sorts of problems for Steve.

star 8.24
667 votes
Directors: Geeta V. Patel
Writers: Abe Sylvia, Liz Feldman
Where Do We Go From Here

#2 - Where Do We Go From Here

Season 2 - Episode 10 - Aired May 8, 2020

Determined to protect her family, Jen tries to come clean about Steve's whereabouts, but the situation veers in an unexpected direction thanks to Judy.

star 8.17
399 votes
Directors: Silver Tree
Writers: Cara DiPaolo, Liz Feldman
I Have To Be Honest

#3 - I Have To Be Honest

Season 1 - Episode 9 - Aired May 3, 2019

As Jen's life begins to crumble personally and professionally, she reveals her darkest secret to Judy, who does some confessing of her own.

star 8.07
645 votes
Directors: Geeta V. Patel
Writers: Rebecca Addelman
It's Not You, It's Me

#4 - It's Not You, It's Me

Season 2 - Episode 9 - Aired May 8, 2020

Filled with guilt and regret, Jen finds a civic-minded way to unleash some pent-up feelings. Judy revisits her past. The police uncover a new lead.

star 8.04
396 votes
Directors: Silver Tree
Writers: Kelly Hutchinson, Liz Feldman
I Can't Go Back

#5 - I Can't Go Back

Season 1 - Episode 4 - Aired May 3, 2019

When Jen discovers that her late husband harbored a devastating secret, she enlists Judy's help in tracking down more information.

star 7.81
691 votes
Directors: Abe Sylvia
Writers: Kate Robin
You Don't Have To

#6 - You Don't Have To

Season 2 - Episode 6 - Aired May 8, 2020

Jen scrambles to contain the fallout from Charlie's vehicular hijinks, Judy faces questions about Steve, and Henry experiences a case of stage fright.

star 7.76
404 votes
Writers: Celeste Hughey
Try To Stop Me

#7 - Try To Stop Me

Season 1 - Episode 8 - Aired May 3, 2019

Jen makes a reckless decision after Nick narrows down the list of potential suspects, and Judy feels renewed hope over her relationship with Steve.

star 7.76
631 votes
Directors: Kat Coiro
Writers: Kelly Hutchinson
It Had To Be You

#8 - It Had To Be You

Season 2 - Episode 8 - Aired May 8, 2020

Jen feels conflicted over a real estate deal. The damage from Charlie's joyride piles up. Judy reaches out to Michelle and runs into Detective Perez.

star 7.74
396 votes
Writers: Emma Rathbone
Oh My God

#9 - Oh My God

Season 1 - Episode 6 - Aired May 3, 2019

Jen realizes her sons aren't coping with their dad's death as well as she thought they were. Judy joins Nick as he investigates the hit-and-run.

star 7.73
663 votes
Directors: Minkie Spiro
Writers: Njeri Brown
It's All My Fault

#10 - It's All My Fault

Season 1 - Episode 3 - Aired May 3, 2019

On what would have been her husband's 50th birthday, Jen clashes with her disapproving mother-in-law over the best way to mark the occasion.

star 7.73
724 votes
Directors: Abe Sylvia
Writers: Anthony King
If Only You Knew

#11 - If Only You Knew

Season 2 - Episode 7 - Aired May 8, 2020

Judy receives a rude awakening after a romantic night, while Jen looks to make a positive contribution to the community — and a client.

star 7.70
396 votes
Writers: Dan Dietz
I've Gotta Get Away

#12 - I've Gotta Get Away

Season 1 - Episode 5 - Aired May 3, 2019

A grief retreat in Palm Springs gives Jen a chance to move on and cut loose under the watchful eye of Judy, who soon follows her friend's lead.

star 7.59
656 votes
Directors: Minkie Spiro
Writers: Abe Sylvia
I Can Handle It

#13 - I Can Handle It

Season 1 - Episode 7 - Aired May 3, 2019

A break in the case and a crushing business setback leave Jen shaken. Judy and Steve take care of unfinished business.

star 7.59
646 votes
Directors: Kat Coiro
Writers: Emma Rathbone
Between You And Me

#14 - Between You And Me

Season 2 - Episode 4 - Aired May 8, 2020

Jen and Judy try to dig their way out of trouble during a trip out of town, but their cathartic weekend away comes to an abrupt end over tragic news.

star 7.57
407 votes
Directors: Tamra Davis
Writers: Jessi Klein
Maybe I'm Crazy

#15 - Maybe I'm Crazy

Season 1 - Episode 2 - Aired May 3, 2019

Amid her escalating rage over the stalled investigation into her husband's death, Jen becomes more entangled in Judy's messy personal life.

star 7.57
764 votes
Directors: Amy York Rubin
Writers: Kelly Hutchinson, Liz Feldman
Where Have You Been

#16 - Where Have You Been

Season 2 - Episode 2 - Aired May 8, 2020

Rattled when an old acquaintance of Judy's turns up asking questions about Steve, Jen prepares for the worst. Detective Perez's suspicions grow.

star 7.52
459 votes
Directors: Liza Johnson
Writers: Elizabeth Benjamin
Pilot

#17 - Pilot

Season 1 - Episode 1 - Aired May 3, 2019

Overwhelmed by grief and anger after her husband's sudden death, acerbic real estate agent Jen meets tenderhearted Judy at a support group.

star 7.50
908 votes
Directors: Amy York Rubin
Writers: Liz Feldman
The Price You Pay

#18 - The Price You Pay

Season 2 - Episode 5 - Aired May 8, 2020

A sore back, money worries and a busybody neighbor push Jen to seek relief from the last person she expects. Judy connects with a kindred spirit.

star 7.49
397 votes
Writers: Kelly Hutchinson
You Know What You Did

#19 - You Know What You Did

Season 2 - Episode 1 - Aired May 8, 2020

As Jen and Judy grapple with the distressing events of the night before, Jen soon realizes that eyes — and ears — are everywhere in her neighborhood.

star 7.47
467 votes
Directors: Liza Johnson
Writers: Liz Feldman
You Can't Live Like This

#20 - You Can't Live Like This

Season 2 - Episode 3 - Aired May 8, 2020

Jen and Judy disagree over how to handle the situation with Steve, but when the threat of being ratted out hits close to home, a risky plan takes shape.

star 7.45
420 votes
Directors: Tamra Davis
Writers: Cara DiPaolo