The BEST Episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Every episode ever - ranked by fan votes!

Last Updated: Feb 21, 2021

Network: TLC

Follow couples who have an existing relationship online, but haven't met in person. We'll experience their journey as they travel to the other's foreign country for the first time in an attempt to establish an in-person relationship and start the K-1 visa process.

Out Of The Blue

#1 - Out Of The Blue

Season 3 - Episode 9 - Aired Sep 29, 2019

Avery's mom deals with some bad news; Benjamin sees a new side of Akinyi

star 8.07
90 votes
Tell All Part 2

#2 - Tell All Part 2

Season 3 - Episode 15 - Aired Oct 28, 2019

Recalling some of the biggest moments and looking into where the couples are today.

star 7.96
46 votes
King of My Heart

#3 - King of My Heart

Season 3 - Episode 12 - Aired Oct 20, 2019

Ben struggles through the bride price ceremony; Tim leaves Colombia with unfinished business; Rebecca tries to hold onto Zied; Caesar meets with a friend; Tom plans a big gesture for Darcey's last night; Angela is uneasy at her engagement party.

star 7.84
94 votes
True Colors

#4 - True Colors

Season 3 - Episode 8 - Aired Sep 22, 2019

Rebecca learns the results of Zied's background check. Avery delivers some devastating news to her mom. Benjamin finally meets Akinyi's father. Angela and Michael try to make amends. Darcey and Tom's relationship takes an interesting turn in Albania.

star 7.79
92 votes

#5 - Blindsided

Season 2 - Episode 3 - Aired Aug 19, 2018

Ricky's patience wears thin as he waits for Melissa. Jon adjusts to his new role as a dad. Michael welcomes Angela to Nigeria. Karine takes Paul's test. Tarik arrives in Manila and waits for a suspicious Hazel. Darcey prepares Jesse to meet her daughters.

star 7.74
53 votes
Truth or Lie

#6 - Truth or Lie

Season 2 - Episode 7 - Aired Sep 16, 2018

Jesse's trip to America comes to an end; Karine and Paul continue to bicker; single mom Marta plans a trip to Algeria; Rachel learns more about Jon's dating history; Angela's frustration with Michael boils over; Ricky reveals all.

star 7.68
63 votes
Season 4 Tell All Part 2

#7 - Season 4 Tell All Part 2

Season 4 - Episode 17 - Aired Jun 8, 2020

In Part 2 of the Tell All, host Shaun Robinson dives back in to discuss more of the biggest moments with our couples and updates on where their relationships stand now.

star 7.64
69 votes
Against All Odds

#8 - Against All Odds

Season 3 - Episode 13 - Aired Oct 27, 2019

The couples must part ways, but not all couples handles the distance well.

star 7.63
64 votes
Little Lies

#9 - Little Lies

Season 3 - Episode 3 - Aired Aug 18, 2019

Angela deals with more issues surrounding Michael; Darcey gets ready to meet her new British man; Ben worries his Kenyan love interest isn't ready to become a stepmom; Avery finally meets her Syrian fiancé, Omar; Rebecca digs into Zied's past.

star 7.58
81 votes
Treat Me Right

#10 - Treat Me Right

Season 3 - Episode 10 - Aired Oct 6, 2019

Benjamin ponders his relationship ahead of the bride price ceremony; Angela confronts Michael's friends; Jeniffer and Tim question their compatibility; Avery and Omar spend their last day together in Beirut; Rebecca and Zied head to the Sahara.

star 7.58
106 votes
King of Wishful Thinking

#11 - King of Wishful Thinking

Season 4 - Episode 12 - Aired May 10, 2020

Avery spends some time with Ash's ex. Ed & Rose discuss their relationship. Erika opens up to Stephanie about her past. David listens to his heart, and Geoffrey & Varya look to the future.

star 7.58
73 votes
Season 4 Tell All Part 1

#12 - Season 4 Tell All Part 1

Season 4 - Episode 16 - Aired Jun 7, 2020

Host Shaun Robinson sits down with the cast for a deep dive into the details of their most intense moments this season.

star 7.57
70 votes
The Pleasure Principle

#13 - The Pleasure Principle

Season 4 - Episode 13 - Aired May 17, 2020

Geoffrey settles back home. Lisa confronts Usman. Ed leaves the Philippines. Avery & Ash spend time with his son. Darcey rethinks her priorities. Stephanie & Erika say goodbye. Yolanda wants answers from Williams, while David continues his quest for Lana.

star 7.54
69 votes
Expecting the Unexpected

#14 - Expecting the Unexpected

Season 2 - Episode 8 - Aired Sep 23, 2018

Ricky's news stuns Ximena; Hazel lets her guard down with Tarik; Michael pleads with Angela; Rachel and John receive tough news; Jesse plans another trip to see Darcey; Marta runs into immigration issues; Paul and Karine deal with shocking news.

star 7.50
60 votes
The Rest is Still Unwritten

#15 - The Rest is Still Unwritten

Season 3 - Episode 5 - Aired Sep 1, 2019

Darcey confronts Tom about a certain issue. Ben must impress Akinyi's overprotective brother. Rebecca has concerns about Zied's temper after a dramatic night out, Avery and Omar discuss life in Syria. Caesar's plans to propose are up in the air.

star 7.47
95 votes
Under Pressure

#16 - Under Pressure

Season 3 - Episode 7 - Aired Sep 15, 2019

Caesar suffers a devastating blow; Zied's sister gives Rebecca a hard time; Avery faces pressure the night before the wedding; Tom is taken aback by Darcey's twin dynamic; Tim tries to fix things with Jeniffer; Ben is blamed for upsetting Akinyi.

star 7.47
92 votes
Going the Distance

#17 - Going the Distance

Season 1 - Episode 2 - Aired Aug 13, 2017

Sean lands in Haiti to meet Abby; Paul embarks on a two-day boat trip down the Amazon, but isn't sure if Karine will show up; Darcey encounters airport mishaps in Amsterdam.

star 7.45
112 votes
Red Flags

#18 - Red Flags

Season 1 - Episode 9 - Aired Oct 1, 2017

Sean finally meets Abby's ex-boyfriend in an emotional showdown. Jesse and Darcey reach breaking point. Cortney is suspicious about Antonio's womanizing ways. Paul reveals a big secret to Karine, which leads to a dangerous encounter in Brazil.

star 7.44
111 votes
Tell All

#19 - Tell All

Season 2 - Episode 11 - Aired Oct 14, 2018

The couples reunite for an emotional and riveting tell-all special; now that everyone is back to long distance, they face new pressures, tension and challenges; host Shaun Robinson gets to the bottom of where they stand now.

star 7.44
62 votes
Pack Your Bags

#20 - Pack Your Bags

Season 3 - Episode 2 - Aired Aug 11, 2019

Avery hits a major roadblock on her way to Lebanon; Angela asks her daughter for a favor that would be life-changing; Caesar must convince Maria to go to Mexico; Darcey receives an interesting call.

star 7.43
89 votes
The NeverEnding Story

#21 - The NeverEnding Story

Season 4 - Episode 15 - Aired May 31, 2020

Stephanie reveals a secret. Geoffrey follows his heart. Darcey looks ahead to the future. David & Lana spend their last bit of time together. Ed hopes for a second chance, and Lisa & Usman must say goodbye.

star 7.42
69 votes
Hard to Say I'm Sorry

#22 - Hard to Say I'm Sorry

Season 3 - Episode 11 - Aired Oct 13, 2019

Tim must make an important decision; Benjamin negotiates the bride price; Darcey confides in Tom's sister; Avery and Omar must say goodbye; Angela tries to make amends; Rebecca reveals a bombshell.

star 7.40
67 votes
Tell All Part 1

#23 - Tell All Part 1

Season 3 - Episode 14 - Aired Oct 27, 2019

Host Shaun Robinson sits down with the cast for a deep dive into the details of their most intense moments this season.

star 7.38
45 votes
Reality Check

#24 - Reality Check

Season 1 - Episode 10 - Aired Oct 8, 2017

Karine wonders what happened to Paul... Larry insults Jenny's family when he visits. Sean questions his future with Abby after their blow-up. Cortney wants more insight on Antonio's feelings. Patrick and Myriam have a heart to heart in Paris.

star 7.38
109 votes
Stranger in a Strange Land

#25 - Stranger in a Strange Land

Season 4 - Episode 8 - Aired Apr 12, 2020

Usman asks for his mother's blessing. Varya shows Geoffrey her hometown. Ed spends the night at Rosemarie's. Ash & Avery tour the outback. David continues his quest for Lana. Stephanie travels to Erika's hometown, and Darcey & Tom process everything.

star 7.37
86 votes